Monday, February 15, 2010

Absence doesnt make your heart grow fonder but colder- well, check out!!!!!!!

Thanks to one of the digital friends! I have started igniting my vested interest to start blogging in this site again. Duh!!!!

Hmm, when you are whisking your mind umpteen times during the first half of a working Tuesday, then its easier for anyone to guess that you either don’t have any work for the day or else you have fastened up any work you had during the first few minutes or hours and relax with an empty mind- (nothing officially occupied). If you ever avail of one such situation god bless you!! For the time being God is blessing me (lol). But I doubt I can continue with all these mundane craps which do not fit to be a good topic of re-entering this site again (whew!).

Here I go, 1, 2 and 3.

For the time being my mind is trickling through a funny idea. I suppose she (personifying my dumbo mind) has a penchant for something extra ordinarily ordinary. Well, let me stick back to some psychological substance---- zzzzzzzzz---- Distance relations do not work. Yes, (with an ironically murky smile) it doesn’t work at all. No one can dare sue me to make it a lucid affirmation (grrrrrrrr).

I have been surveying upon my friends, near and dear ones, relatives etc etc etc and sadly I could figure out that long distant relations have just 20% chances of survival (sob sob). Do you want me to cite an example?? Ok I am reluctant to do so. There is this cousin of mine who has been relocated from Bangalore to Manipur for a decent post in some banking sector. His GF (say any name N) stayed back in Bangalore. I have a very dedicated habit of orkuting every day and whenever I would log in I would not miss those heartbreaking status updates of N – Happy to be single finally, he doesn’t deserve me, Glad to be myself..etc etc etc ….wha!!!!!!!!! I don’t mean to mock N or my cousin but I could sense that distance factor was taking a toll upon their relation. They were almost on the verge of break up (I am still not sure if they have patched up or not).


In ancient days our elders used to quote that’ laapnaraga henli nungsinaba’ which synonymously means ‘absence makes the heart grow fonder’. But in modern day romance, there is a big BUT to this saying. Things have changed, people are more materialized and in the pursuit of excellence maybe people do not have time to ponder over tiny things in our lives that used to make us happy. Emotions are in fact alienated. So, the bottom line is absence doesn’t make the heart grow fonder anymore; absence makes you grow older while your heart becomes colder.

Be right back!!

Adieu!